For too long now Christian apologetics and public Christianity has been living in a BC word – Before Coopers. From henceforth Australian Christianity has to come to terms with the fact it is a PC world – a Post Coopers one.
And the overriding lesson to learn from the debacle of the last week is that it’s over baby – give it up. The cultural narrative no longer includes us in its story except as the villain in the piece. And we’d better get used to it.
The proof of that was as pathetic as it was predictable. In fact I did predict it. There yesterday with sad puppy dog eyes, Coopers beer owners recanted and confessed their sins (not of commission, but of omission). They pleaded forgiveness and as their penance not only cut all ties with The Bible Society, but made up for it by signing up with marriage equality. Wins all round.
This schmozzle signals that the turning point for meaningful engagement by the Christian faith in the public square has been reached. Not that this was the turning point, but it surely signalled its arrival. And not “no engagement” in the public square, but no “meaningful engagement”. Christianity no longer has the clout, or the goodwill of those who control the narrative to decide which topics can be discussed and which cannot. We need to come to terms with that or we are destined to be very frustrated.
As a church planting acquaintance in Sydney told me yesterday, his non-Christian friend who he is trying to reach with the gospel says that the mistake Coopers made (although Coopers is innocent in this one) was to assume there was a debate to be had. There isn’t. The debate days are over. My friend is caught between a rock and a hard place. Any “Yes, but” response as he scrambles around in his head for the right apologetic nuance to give simply makes him look like a jerk. His word, not mine.
And he’s in an uber cool setting doing household church with a high level of community engagement. Jerkery is the last thing on his mind – and the last thing the uber cool church planting movement thinks it is displaying. Jerkery was a feature of all those crusty traditionalists who can’t get radical with the gospel. It’s not me, surely. Yes, my friend, it’s you. Get used to it.
Remember all those church planting conferences that rejected the idea that “If you build it they will come” and replaced it with “If you live and work and breath among them they will come to accept you as one of theirs and give you a hearing”? Psssst! guess what? The culture sees through it!
There’s a difference of course between looking like a jerk and actually being one. And the perception among many in the gay community, along with the wider progressive set, is that Christians and Christianity have been jerks.
Just today a man called Tom wrote a heart-wrenching comment on my blog. Here’s part of what he said:
I remember all the nasty things spoken by Christians over the decades to me (some very harsh) and when I read a post like yours, I can’t help but think that people like you are participating in weak whining. What’s the equivalent of being a called a faggot in the Christian sense? After so many years, the memory still hurts. Have you ever been bullied in school because you were Christian? I was for being gay. Have you ever got taunted walking down the street holding hands with your partner for being Christian? Well, I have.
Now at this point you, like the apologetically well trained Pavlovian Christian dog you undoubtedly are, are about to say “Yes, but”. Don’t. That would be to exhibit the jerkery people are speaking of. Besides I do know a little of that. I was taunted for being gay at school, and as a young Gothic dressing man in conservative Perth in the 1980s nearly had my head kicked in several times, and was frequently called a faggot as I walked down the street. But this bloke Tom has something important to say and his response is far more irenic and insightful than many responses I get. He goes on:
I agree with you that the outrage is sometimes a little loud and perhaps unnecessary, but nothing that you have described so far amounts even to a fraction of the pain, suffering and persecution that I and other gay friends have experienced over the decades. So if this is all that you mean by persecution, I would have liked for you to live my life for a day.
I 100 percent believe that any sexual relationship outside of heterosexual marriage is sexually immoral, but Tom’s words cut me to the core with grief. So no “Yes buts”. We have been painted into a corner and if we down look at our hands we may just notice a paint can and paint brush. Is everything our fault? No. Are Christians the worst homophobes in the world? The court reports of gay bashing (the ones that ever made it to the courts that is, or weren’t carried out by the cops in dark parks), suggest otherwise. But remember, no “Yes buts”, that’s the path to jerkery right there.
Two years ago I wrote these off-the-cuff words in a blog post that went viral:
If the last five or six years are any indication, the culture (read: elite framework that drives the culture) is increasingly interested in bringing the church back into the public square. Yes, you heard that right. But not in order to hear it, but rather in order to flay it, expose its real and alleged abuses and to render it naked and shivering before a jeering crowd.
The only difference to what happened this past week is that we were not brought into the public square, kicking and screaming. No. We sauntered in unsuspectingly, jauntily, cockily and expecting a hearing at least. And boy did we get our noses rubbed in it.
The flaying, exposing and jeering occurred all right, but somehow that shocked a lot of Christians who assumed a level playing field. Witness the outrage. Witness the refusal to admit the Bible Society was naive to pull this stunt. As Tom rightly points out, the playing field was not level for him when we were in charge of the rules, (his assumption is that we were in charge of them, which I would dispute, but that would make me look like a jerk), so why start whining when it’s no longer level for us and the rule book has been snatched from us? In other words you’re getting what you deserved and it’s only going to get worse. (I can hear the “Yes buts” lining up already).
Yet we don’t get it. Theological colleges continue to send out eager young Christians into the fray armed with apologetic weapons and arguments that presuppose debates about issues that the secular culture has already determined are not open to debate. Conference after conference on “how to engage the world” springs up with the same old arguments that convince Christians and nobody else.
It’s like World War One trench warfare. Wave after wave of soldiers is sent into the teeth of an enemy Gatling gun, and all for no ground gained. We need Generals with the insight and bravery to go “Enough is enough! Stop the slaughter, this isn’t working. We need to regroup and think this one through.” (Benedict Option anyone?)
Once again I am not telling you what should be. I am telling you what is. Don’t come back to me with fine sounding arguments or natural law explanations about marriage or whatever. The culture is no longer grounded in the theistic world view, and sees no reason to be so. Our withering evangelism successes prove it. 80 percent of people simply don’t care what we believe and wish to be left alone; 10 per cent of people do care what we believe and hate it enough to boycott and raise hell. And the other 10 per cent? That’s us – the Christians. And we haven’t even bottomed out yet insofar as the slide from orthodoxy is concerned. When we’re being told by bloggers that churches should stop preaching about same sex marriage in church because of the way it is upsetting to many same sex attracted Christians, then you know there is a ways to go before we see whose left standing at all in this decaying culture.
And it is a decaying culture. Just like Greece and Rome before us, we exhibit all of the economic injustices and moral decadence of those cultures in their decline. In its prime the Roman Empire scorned the Greeks for the sexual decadence that brought them low, then promptly fell over at the same hurdle. That’s the way this culture thing rolled, that’s the way this culture thing will continue to roll. Naysayers who accuse me of cultural pessimism or tapping hyperbolically into the narrative of cultural decline are flying in the face of historical patterns.
I always seem to end these types of blog posts with an upbeat look at how the church is secure in Christ and we don’t need to worry too much about it as our God is sovereign. Take that as read. I end this one by saying that I assume it will get a lot darker before it gets light again. The time for our community to be given a hearing is over, the time for Tom’s community to be given a hearing has come. The BC world has been blown away.
So Tom, and others of you treated as shamefully as you were, enjoy this time in the sun. Goodness knows after all the crap you have been through you have earned it. Goodness knows you have put up with a lot that we either tacitly approved of, or turned our backs from and pretended wasn’t happening. It was in our interests not to know too much and for whatever we did know to be explained away with a few “Yes buts”.
However learn the lesson from other fallen empires. The rules of engagement didn’t change – they just got tossed out. The revolution never sleeps. The revolution eats its young. The refusal of a culture to listen to one or any particular grouping within it seems like bliss when you’re on the inside track. But that won’t last. Just as Allison Stanger the liberal arts professor at Middlebury College was set upon by the cultural children whom she had spawned so too one day you will perhaps push back against something in the decaying culture and be met with vehement hostility once again.
Stanger espoused every value her students held. Every value plus one more: the requirement to listen and engage with an enemy in peace and respect. And that extra value cost her a week in a darkened room with concussion in a neck brace, beaten by the very people she was teaching. That’s not a “Yes but”, simply a piece of advice for the dark future that, in the current glow of being accepted into the centre, you can’t see now. But it is coming, it is definitely coming. And when it does come in all its sound and fury it will make the Bible Society/Coopers stoush seem like small beer, very small beer indeed.